If in case you have been single for some time, like I have, then you definately might be questioning one thing. Relationships that are not wholesome are based on energy and control, not equality and respect. In the early levels of an abusive relationship, you could not assume the unhealthy behaviors are an enormous deal. However, possessiveness, insults, jealous accusations, yelling, humiliation, pulling hair, pushing or other abusive behaviors, are — at their root — exertions of power and control. Remember that abuse is at all times a selection and also you should be respected. There isn’t a excuse for abuse of any sort.