If in case you have been single for some time, like I have, you then could be questioning one factor. Casually courting at first can result in a relationship — but not at all times. Excerpted from Making True Love: A Guide to Lasting Relationships by Thomas and Donna Finn, copyright 2001 by Daughters of St. Paul. Printed by Pauline Books & Media, Boston, Ma. Click on on or name 1-800-876-4463 to order this guide or Intimate Bedfellows: Love, Intercourse, and the Catholic Church , additionally by Thomas and Donna Finn.